I love watching the relationship between Zack and his sister develop.
This afternoon Zack was lying on the settee and Scarlett was watching her usual CBeebies mash-up, I popped upstairs to collect something. When I came back downstairs I found her stood next to him running her fingers idly through his curls whilst continuing to watching television. All the while Zack lay there with a huge grin on his face.
In fact she only has to go over to him and his big beaming smile appears, complete with amazing dimples.
Scarlett loves it when I make Zack stand up and pretend to chase after her. They are both in fits of giggles. And Zack loves it when we are all on the floor together playing with toys or reading a story.
I wondered how they might be able to understand one another or even develop a kinship if they can't communicate. In this short time I have seen that you don't need language to love each other, these two are quite happy just to be. Sometimes it's sad that he can't run and chase her, or even whack her over the head with a toy, you know like siblings do. But I have a sneaking feeling that even though he can't do all those things, Scarlett will gain a different understanding of the world, perhaps one that is more compassionate and patient. As for Zack, well he just gets to play big brother and has the bonus of knowing that there is someone else who loves him just as much as we do.
This isn't my blog, it's Zack's. Zack arrived here seven weeks early, he had no heartbeat and wasn't breathing. He suffered catastrophic damage to his brain, he has cerebral palsy, problems with his hearing, vision and feeding. Our lives are both challenging and extraordinary. He is a gift. I hope that for whatever reason you find yourself reading this blog it can go some way to help those in the same situation and some way to remove the cloak that covers parenting a child with disabilities.
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Monday, 8 October 2012
Monday, 5 March 2012
Well, it beats Disney
If it's not one birthday it's another.
Zack's sister turned one on the 1st of March. One. Where did that year go?
She had a fantastic day. Zack spent the morning at nursery. Enjoying World Book Day dressed as Dracula. Well, it beats, Disney any day, plus I was being eco-friendly by recycling Halloween costumes. Eco-friendly and too tight to buy something new.
World Book Day? We never did that when I was at school.
Scazlett went for breakfast then on to the Jungle. By Jungle I mean your basic soft play area. She spent the hour scooting round the place and shouting Dad, dad every five minutes. He was allowed to stand in the background but not with her, she didn't want her style cramped.
We picked up Pants, went home, had lunch then off out to the park. It was a lovely day, we showed them the animals, well a lot of chickens and ducks really, maybe a few goats and one pony. Zack went on a swing that was more or less a round tube with some netting across it. He loved it though.
You'd think that is enough for a one year old. Oh no, Queen Bee had her birthday party too on the Saturday. It was very, very busy but she loved it, quite the little social butterfly. Zack had a great time up until about 4.30pm when he decided to vomit and not stop vomiting until about midnight.
He then past the baton to me whereby I stuck my head down the toilet from 5am until about 3pm. Either we had both picked up a bug or we had eaten something rotten. Either way I felt like I had the hangover without the joy of the drink the night before. Mind you on the bright side I got to have a massive lie in and spend the day in my P.Js. Trouble is Dan is well due some big Mountain Biking expeditions, fair enough, I think he can be afforded a day off or two.
Here are some pictures from the exploits.
Zack's sister turned one on the 1st of March. One. Where did that year go?
She had a fantastic day. Zack spent the morning at nursery. Enjoying World Book Day dressed as Dracula. Well, it beats, Disney any day, plus I was being eco-friendly by recycling Halloween costumes. Eco-friendly and too tight to buy something new.
World Book Day? We never did that when I was at school.
Scazlett went for breakfast then on to the Jungle. By Jungle I mean your basic soft play area. She spent the hour scooting round the place and shouting Dad, dad every five minutes. He was allowed to stand in the background but not with her, she didn't want her style cramped.
We picked up Pants, went home, had lunch then off out to the park. It was a lovely day, we showed them the animals, well a lot of chickens and ducks really, maybe a few goats and one pony. Zack went on a swing that was more or less a round tube with some netting across it. He loved it though.
You'd think that is enough for a one year old. Oh no, Queen Bee had her birthday party too on the Saturday. It was very, very busy but she loved it, quite the little social butterfly. Zack had a great time up until about 4.30pm when he decided to vomit and not stop vomiting until about midnight.
He then past the baton to me whereby I stuck my head down the toilet from 5am until about 3pm. Either we had both picked up a bug or we had eaten something rotten. Either way I felt like I had the hangover without the joy of the drink the night before. Mind you on the bright side I got to have a massive lie in and spend the day in my P.Js. Trouble is Dan is well due some big Mountain Biking expeditions, fair enough, I think he can be afforded a day off or two.
Here are some pictures from the exploits.
Sunday, 6 March 2011
Tadaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Zack has a sister.
This is Scarlett Gould-Price, born on Tuesday 1st March at 1.13pm and weighed 6lb 5.
The first meeting between the Pants and his sister went well on his part. He smiled politely, got a good look at her and she screamed in his ear, he quite liked this.
The other day they were on the bed lying next to each other and I turned around to find him holding her little hand. She was still screaming in his ear. I think he might get fed up of the screaming by week two.
Anyway I just wanted to update the blog but too tired to write lots more which I will do when we have all settled in to a nice routine. (Ha! Yeah nice routine like that is going to ever be the case).
Enjoy the pictures for now.
This is Scarlett Gould-Price, born on Tuesday 1st March at 1.13pm and weighed 6lb 5.
The first meeting between the Pants and his sister went well on his part. He smiled politely, got a good look at her and she screamed in his ear, he quite liked this.
The other day they were on the bed lying next to each other and I turned around to find him holding her little hand. She was still screaming in his ear. I think he might get fed up of the screaming by week two.
Anyway I just wanted to update the blog but too tired to write lots more which I will do when we have all settled in to a nice routine. (Ha! Yeah nice routine like that is going to ever be the case).
Enjoy the pictures for now.
And who knew that Coronation Streets Peter Barlow makes celebrity appearances at a birth near you!!!!
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